Thank you for having created such a platform where women like myself can come here and seek advice without having to open up to "friends" or "family members" that are judgmental and gossips.
Since the birth of our daughter 23 months ago, I am no longer interested in sex. My husband lies in bed and says: 'I know what it is - you're not attracted to me any more.' I have tried to tell him that it's nothing personal, that I love him, but just don't feel like having sex with him or anyone else and he just can't understand that! We used to have a vigorous sex life - three to four times a week. However, after the birth of our first child, I don't have any urges to have sex and even when I try for him, it is painful and I cannot even get wet enough.
It has caused a massive tension between us. I feel like if I don't seek help it will be the end of our 5-year-old marriage. Have any KB reader experienced these feelings after child birth? What can I do to get my urges back?
I will be reading the comments...Thanks in advance.