Tuesday, 12 July 2016

Beware of fake men of God - Pastor Chris Oyakhilome's ex-wife writes

Pastor Anita, published an article titled ''Soul winning'' in which she asks people to beware of fake men of God..
When people talk about winning souls these days, I feel absolutely concerned for the so-called souls. It looks to me like a lion on a breakfast mission, in search for his hunt; he hides behind the grass for an unwise lamb that would wander away from the herd in search of fresh grass. This will be an easy catch and good feast for the lion’s plate.
When I hear these people talk about winning souls, I feel sorry for the souls who have no idea of what they are getting into. It sometimes sounds to me like blood-thirsty people desperate to count the number of innocent, ignorant people who will give their blood to be sucked. These souls are classified, as the needy, can undoubtedly be gullible in their search for solutions and wanting to identify or belong to a community.

These souls are caught when they are most vulnerable maybe they have lost a loved one, in a bad relationship with their parents or family, in need of healing or desperate for a change. At this point they will give anything and do anything without a second thought. 
When caught by the wrong hands, they will start running in a wheel. Initially, the souls will be treated with some measure of care, so they do not detach. This will be short lived to prepare them to be trained as unconscious servants. Once the attachment is built, they would start attending endless meetings till they begin to be unavailable for their loved ones and disassociate from their families over time.

These souls will eventually give their energy away and with time they begin to feel tired, unhappy, sick, financially drained and depleted. Unknown to them, this new community and friends may be superficial. The souls might observe that sweet and bitter method of sucking their blood has gradually robbed them of their self worth. They might realize they have given their energy to somebody else and they are now hanging in the spider’s web.

They are tied up with daily and weekly responsibilities but if you look closely, their main leader is seating in a place of convenience by handling brief monthly meetings (not weekly) or occasional gatherings.

When I hear about souls, I have sympathy for those who give their blood to be sucked. They are simply prey to be used as objects in some people’s game. Incidentally, some of these souls have become wiser in seeking the opportunity to reap the reaper in his own game, like the buffalo who challenges the tiger.
An aggressive soul winner is hungry like a hunter; he goes with all manner of tools and uses different technique to capture his prey.An aggressive soul winner is like a fisherman who uses a net. This method of fishing is solely for material or commercial purposes. On the other hand a fish can also be caught by using a fishing rod with baits or lures impaled on the hooks to entice any fish that venture near to bite off the attractive bait. Unfortunately, if caught by a commercial fisherman the fish is not going anywhere after all that effort, it must be eaten. However, if caught by a hobbyist, he will admire the fish and put it back where it belongs, in its natural habitat. Thank God for regulatory organizations helping to stop brutal killings of animals whether on land or sea.

Soul winning alone will not take you to heaven; you win a soul by living the God life and your personal interest in bringing somebody to the knowledge of Christ. You have to be in a good frame of mind first, not under fear or compulsion that if you do not win souls you will go to hell. There should be no ulterior motives like getting the soul’s money eventually, you want a position or seeking to be rewarded with treats or awards. There are people who reach out to others daily not for any earthly reward or to direct the souls to their own churches, for benefits or for any selfish reason. These people recommend and make available other authors, ministers and local assemblies for the interest of the soul alone.

Every man should learn to take care of himself first. He should learn to use his initiative and study for himself otherwise he might become somebody’s big catch or ‘meat’. At that point he would have no one to blame.

I have written this for those who have asked me questions on soul winning and their fears.

20 comments:

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  2. What a petty, Anita will a whole story born out of her emotions just to bewilder many of followers hip and discipleship. A long one for that matter without a singular scriptural backing. What carnality and all the blogs that have no substance to share with the public do is propagate them as fast as possible. God bless you all. We still love you no matter you ever said or will say.

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    1. People are ready to believe anything on the net. Like seriously ask yourselves, who is the author of this blog? Where did he meet pastor Anita or got the massage from? From her Facebook? Website? Where on earth did he get this with an edited picture he got from the net. Show some level of wisdom and discernment people! She has led millions to Christ as an active member.

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  3. It so sad that for many years you yourself was so deep in soul winning and even had books written by you and today you are saying this? Moreover our problems should not lead to have transferred aggression,as a woman you are,I know that when a woman is happy her love increases but angry she is ready to destroy without any second thought.

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    1. People are ready to believe anything on the net. Like seriously ask yourselves, who is the author of this blog? Where did he meet pastor Anita or got the massage from? From her Facebook? Website? Where on earth did he get this with an edited picture he got from the net. Show some level of wisdom and discernment people! She has led millions to Christ as an active member.

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  4. CATHOLIC TILL I SEE HEAVEN. Time nova even reach well for all these money and devilish institutions for start letting them secrets out, na the beginning this. Anita match fire we di hear and take note. hahahaha

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  5. all these to mean Pastor Chris is a fake pastor? hmmmm

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  6. At the beginning I told myself that it'll be petty of Pastor Anita to bring down a man she had been married to for about 2 decades just because it's over.

    But when I read on and decided to take the thought that it refers to her ex-husband and just see genuine advise for all churches, I said 'oh yes, there sure is a message to get from here.'

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  7. She did not write this when everything was ok.
    why now that thing have turned up side down?
    strike the iron when it is hot.
    You never gave us this advise when you were find with your husband: in all you can be a fake pastor too ...... we are aware now.
    thanks for making us to undetrstand the real you.

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    1. People are ready to believe anything on the net. Like seriously ask yourselves, who is the author of this blog? Where did he meet pastor Anita or got the massage from? From her Facebook? Website? Where on earth did he get this with an edited picture he got from the net. Show some level of wisdom and discernment people! She has led millions to Christ as an active member.

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  8. all wuna don see weti sef.....nonsense fool them all.its better not to go to church like me and pray in your various homes

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  9. Make she free us i beg no b today before nko,her own ways are not pure joor,if she really cared about souls she should have said so since when she was married,why now,i smell a rat.these are the last days may God help us separate the wolves from the sheep

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    1. People are ready to believe anything on the net. Like seriously ask yourselves, who is the author of this blog? Where did he meet pastor Anita or got the massage from? From her Facebook? Website? Where on earth did he get this with an edited picture he got from the net. Show some level of wisdom and discernment people! She has led millions to Christ as an active member.

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  10. Why now.we are aware that u and ur ex husband are fake

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  11. People are ready to believe anything on the net. Like seriously ask yourselves, who is the author of this blog? Where did he meet pastor Anita or got the massage from? From her Facebook? Website? Where on earth did he get this with an edited picture he got from the net. Show some level of wisdom and discernment people! She has led millions to Christ as an active member.

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  12. People are ready to believe just anything. Your mind is not a dumping ground for any trash you read. Come on stop being easily gullible. Check the facts; that's wisdom.

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  13. HEAVEN FOR SALE !!!!

    The religion business,
    Its incestuous relationship
    With greed and capitalism;
    Is a nice jig saw puzzle platform,
    Used by charismatic temple owners
    For their hungry customers - God seekers.

    The politics of tithes
    Has created a tug-of-war contest.
    Contest for everything previously shared
    With lots of money lenders reclaiming unending debts.


    The promise of heaven is one tool
    The threat of hell is another tool.
    Their congregants are the fools.
    To keep the traders bellyful.

    Self made interpreters.
    Self indulgenced interlocutors;
    Wielding undue power with ostrich mentalities
    Impoverishing the already impoverished
    In the wilderness of ignorance.


    Alas for them.
    Sinless believers.

    Atrociously active in the dark cover.
    Backed by Shenanigans
    Cum linguistic semantics
    “Do what I say; not what I do”
    Every blessed culprit will retort.

    A good friend of an ant during the day.
    With so much hate for sinners and unbelievers
    And so much love for God;
    whom they have never seen.


    The search for God continues!
    The heaven and hell strategy
    entraps the foolish believer.
    Alas! Be on your guard.


    By NKWAIN JOHN PAUL SAM

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  14. Live is experience, No matter which situation we find ourselves we should learn to endure and appreciate others of what is right....
    When I read through such message this is what I noticed
    (1) No pastors name was mentioned, its kinda a general message so guilty parties stop calling peoples and pastors name..... If you want to know who or which groups she was referring to you can ask her

    (2) What does the Bible really preach about marriage and divorce? If we want this to happen, is it supposed to happen to people of such status quo? People we all know has high level of communication with the spirit of God?

    (3) Now if the spirit of God is at work here, what does pastor Chris has to teach about this? That the Holy Spirit ask him to divorce his wife? Then I would say he is becoming a second Mohammed
    (4) Is pastor Chris going to take another wife, stay single the rest of his life or reconcile with his woman?
    What must have Anita done to deserve such a Cruel decision from the Man of God? That all comes to what the Bible say about marriage ... What God has joined together let no man put asunder.. The man of God has preached this to millions of people who have reconciled their marriage till date

    (5) Does it mean the man of God doesn't forgive and forget? I have heard and seen him preached this to millions of people too.... Then if we really look up to PHD holder of theology as a spiritual leader then he has a lot to explain as to what the Holy Spirit says about this Scandal
    Thanks all of you.....

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    1. Ayenika, it's Pastor Anita that asked for the divorce from Pastor Chris and not vice versa, and she was bent on divorcing. Just thought I should correct that point.

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  15. Hey madam Back biters only stay in the back.

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