Wednesday, 27 July 2016

Achaley's mother speaks out on his death and reveals he was sexually abused as a child (Watch)

Achaley (ACHALLE‬ DENISE ATEM) is arguably the best Cameroonian vocalist of his generation and his death this morning came as a shock to fans as they were not even aware that he was ill. News reports state that Achaley died from a cancer of the liver which he had been suffering with for 3 years.

Barely hours after the 30-year-old singer's death his mother took to Facebook to tell the world about Achaley's sexual abuse as a child. In the video she indicates that Achaley's sexual abuse as a child messed up his life, and he had been suffering the effects of that abuse right up until his death this morning at around 5:30am. She also tells parents to talk to their child especially those that have been abused.



How did Achaley's sexual abuse ruin his life? How many other "Achaleys" are out there being abused or suffering the effects of being abused in silence? How hard is the Cameroonian law on child abusers?

Watch the video below...

49 comments:

  1. Ma'am this is not important for now.let's joinly mourn him.if someone did that to ur child why do u have to wait till u loose ur son? We'll miss our star Achalle,ma'am we'll join u mourn

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    1. Reading your comment makes me know you are a person with a great heart

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    2. Bc your not a parent. You don't know the pain of burying your child.
      Besides sexual abuse has various consequences it's an open door to perversion and bitterness.
      These storm up toxic emotions.
      I do understand the mother as she is grieving and wished she had a solution to have helped her son.
      Focus on Jesus Christ and prayers. For healing. May the Lord comfort the Mother and her family.
      Please if you are ignorant about an issue keep quiet.
      God bless

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    3. I think de mom's tryna get some media attention...else why will she bring up someting like dat hours after her son's demise...Achaley wasn't sexually abused to death hence its irrelevant to mention that. else u want tell me its her eulogy, but its not his funeral yet...So Ma'am, mourn ur son n stop actin weirdo! My Condolence!!!

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    4. Anyone who questions the motives of a grieving mom is a terrible person. If you have nothing positive to say it's best you stay silent instead of spewing your ignorance. Spread the word mother! Abuse of any kind is disgraceful and should be shamed.

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    5. Reading your comment i am disappointed and for sure you look like one of those Camerooninan the mother is talking about. this is the rubbish that spoils our country and a mother is revealing it you said what is not important. ok you now should mourn and go back and keep doing what you could do. Hey did you see what was beside her? a Bible and if you care dont follow her advice.!!!!!!!!

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    6. the anonymous writer above is a homosexual,i know him

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    7. Gracious God how heartless can human beings be. How many people bring to the open similar situations in our community/country knowing that no action will be taken against the perpetrators who most often are the culprits. Please in the name of God this is not the time, let us help this mum heal from this terrible blow instead of putting salt in the wound. Mum be of good cheers, close your ears to these sadists, God is still on the throne.

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  2. This interview in the first place is of no use @ all!!! Wrong timing my blog sis. How does it even relate to our brother not being a member of this earth anymore��. please whoever did this interview.... omyyyyyy dame...is not even kute. Rip my brother we all moun him. Its well #OwnlyGod

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  3. So where the Mami dey? I don't think this is a good time for this type of video. I guess she is just really hurt.

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  4. People are being used as slaves. Does she mean sex slaves? The video makes one to think Achale died of something other than Liver cancer. Did he die as a result of sexual abuse? Wehhhh i pray God would confort her.

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    1. my heart really bleeds

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  5. Mami..we hear you..but this is wrong timing..u should have said something years ago, not now. RIP MY BROTHER

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  6. mami abeg send me their picture them make I kill them too.Wanders

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  7. Nananancy74@yahoo.com27 July 2016 at 18:53

    There's absolutely nothing wrong for her to bring this topic to light. Her son told her everything before he died. Probably told her that that is the reason for his cancer. I agree with her for speaking on this. If it wasn't a priority,she wouldn't have spoken on it. It is sad. We need to stop and stop now. And we need to protect our children from our brothers, sisters, cousins, nephews,nieces and strangers. Any kind of abuse can be traumatizing and xan mess up one for life. May his soul rest in peace.

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  8. Its Not Everything You Must Blog as a Good Blogger..
    This The wrong time for this post..
    Mum did not say you post it or make it a head light..

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  9. hahahahahaha all them di always claim they were abused time Wei them small.......so what did u do when u became a man???? Abuse bring pain.....I wonder who gets addicted to things that bring pain....to the extent it took their life..... tttttttdssssuuuuiiiippppssss Mami Achale u no get thong for talk

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    1. Shut up you evil boy who doesn't know how he will end Shut up devil!!

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    2. thank you for shutting up the bastard who doesn't kno his death is just minutes away

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  10. all these people weh di sey make this mami leave this for now sey ei no dey important get brain shortage. I believe the mami no sabi express her feelings and what Achalle must have confessed to her. saying he was abused at a young age could be any age, it must not be when he was a toodler. It maybe when he rose to stardorm. Ones child is never too big especially if that's the only child. All these industries like movies and music industries are being run by the devil and a lot is being sacrifice by some. The world is so bad and i mean extremely bad. Probably, Achalle don be used within as a gay or drug trafficker within, no one knows. The mami don cry ei own and so allow her to cry her only son the way she wishes. Na over sabi some people sabi here. ur go go find na new clothes for go the die but na this woman go cry all her life. so ur lock mob if ur no get anything for talk. More must commot na so others go take learn.

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    1. This is the best comment so far,The face that the mom keeps referring to him as a child doesn't mean his abuse was only when he was a little child.She said he was abused right up to the time he died.

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    2. Excellent

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    3. This is the BEST analysis,and comment so far, in this WHOLE internet craze.You make SENSE.

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  11. No wrong timing for this video, we understand what it takes to speak out on certain issues happening in Cameroon. Anyways, not to talk much, to the best of knowledge today's world is too spiritual, there is a price and contract to sign to stay a "celebrity" in the world today, some are unfortunate to sign a wrong spiritual contract. That's the PRICE

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    1. It's not only stardom in the artistic world. Some cunning initiate you. Just the quest for wealth. You need to hold God very well. One of my family member question about the behaviour of a friend. I thought oh your being paranoid. But the person instinct was screaming run run. Until similar thing happened to me. I was like no am over reacting. One day God revealed the real deal. I was so shocked.
      Please always ask God to lead you and let God give you referrals rather than you seeing with your man's eye.
      Sorry oh mami may God comfort you in this difficult times.

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  12. At least massa .. HE Achieved greatness , many wont raised to the point he wAs . weather Gay or papawater . na only an individual knows what it takes or took him/her to get where they are .Bro you did your part . i can't judge you . Go RIP .Take heart Mama you did your best to raise him ,But God knows why

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    1. For whatever reason she did that video,it's wrong.I did some finding and found out that the same woman Abandoned Achalle and went to Germany,then later went to America to meet her daughter.When Achalle fell sick he called her mum begging for help but she did nothing it's Achalle's grand mother who took care of him.It's a pitty,after his dead u talk about sexual assult.first you failled as a mother.you where not there for your child.

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    2. habahhhhh lie lie story wulililili she just said Achale is her only child

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    3. Agents of darkness supporting their friends. Let her be! Let her speak! Thunder fire the guilty.

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  13. This is ridiculous and selfish both to you and his mum. Just a simple respect to this young man's soul is difficult because as a blogger you rush to generate traffic. It will come hunting you.

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  14. Rip achalle be strong like you say ça vas changer la société camerounaise se pervertie depuis lees années

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  15. The death of a talented youngman and the comments above make my heart bleeds.Please everyone be careful with what you write because we are human,we all make mistakes and what makes us different is how u correct yourself after accepting your mistakes,we are in different levels when it comes to will power,strength, control,anxiety etc take note but what is important now is how we pay our last respect to a great man.RIP...

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  16. Why make this kind of announcement now? Is this woman sane and mentally balanced?

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    1. As na you sane and mentally balance so.you fool

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  17. some people come here and write trash as this is not the right time n stuffs like that. mortal man, we have very short brains.those of u, do u know when u all will die? we write rubbish when we dont even know if we will sleep n wake up. since u know your own time, or when ur brother, mother, friend or anybody will die, i hope u get to make ur own video before time. rubbish!!!!. RIP Achaley. i didnt know u, but i know what mummy is going through. Mum, the bible says, TO LIVE IS CHRIST N TO DIE IS GAIN. ACHALEY HAS GAINED. He has left this hypocritical world. i pray God gives u strength mum to go through this. we shall all die one day. RIP Achaley

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  18. May his soul rest on peace. Be strong mum. I understand where you are coming from and your pain. But don't protect those people
    Give their names. They have power back home but at least we can denounce them. Shame on you Cameroun dirigeants. You were suppose to protect your children. I didn't know that kid. But I can't stop crying. Why can't we do something about this problem. Some People use vulnerable persons back home and nobody is doing anything. We are all guilty...
    .we have to find a way to stop this...Let wake up fellow Cameroonians.



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  19. She didn't speack in the video as a mother who has lost her only son.Eyes are bright,talking as a journalist,sensitizing the public abt abuse.pls re watch that stupid video of hers again it make no sense.when Pple children are abuse,is always a top secret.Beside its not the cause of his death.so Mama if u are a mum behave or mourn ur son as mums in Cameroon do for their sons or only son.U all shld stop beating around the bush.

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    1. Oh shut up you low grade journalist,shut up.You have no right to stop someone who is speaking for herself.It is people like you who make others die in silence.If it hurts you that she decided to speak up,go a hug a transformer

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  20. She didn't speack in the video as a mother who has lost her only son.Eyes are bright,talking as a journalist,sensitizing the public abt abuse.pls re watch that stupid video of hers again it make no sense.when Pple children are abuse,is always a top secret.Beside its not the cause of his death.so Mama if u are a mum behave or mourn ur son as mums in Cameroon do for their sons or only son.U all shld stop beating around the bush.

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    1. She has to show to them that she is still strong and coming to Cameroon......watch

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    2. Dj Manu Killer, you better watch ur back.....They will catch you.Detourneur d ' enfants.
      Vieilliard! Pourquoi, vous ne faites pas vos choses la avec les gens de votre age,votre generation?

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    3. just looking at the DJ MANU KILLER he even looks like someone full of demon.He doesn't look normal to me.

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  21. Homosexuality destroyed dis young man. Ohh God forgive him & the odas. Being gay doesn't have any positive effect..Be warned...RIP

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  22. All is boys behaving like guls soon u attrack oda men who will abuse u & initiate u.So be careful soon u start putx on diapers ..RIP my young man u were unfortunate to fall in such

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  23. my dear brothers and sisters, love parents, it is but normal to mourn our love one's. while mourning lets remember our relationship with GOD.The boy is death. sexually abused or not. whether he caused it or not, Or the mama is quoting the event of the child death at a wrong time should not be our worries. OUR LORD GOD HAS THE LAST SAY. THANKS

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  24. my dear primary mate achale may u rest in peace.enphasizing on the cause of ur death will not bring u back to this mortal world of impurity.better still i pray for your soul.and have learn some lesson.RIP

    UR DISTANT CHILDWOOD SCHOOL FRIEND.I REMEMBER WHEN GRANDMUM USE TO HOLD U BY THE HAND AND TAKE U TO CHURCH

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  25. wrong timing of what that's her son .Some of you should hide ur wickedness and show some respect .This is a lesson .spread the lesson from his death not anger .he was convinced and forced into homosexual acts with numerous prominent people in Yaounde to become a star .RIP .God will soon come and take his people from this earth we should pray and be amongst them the people who have their names in the Book of life .The world is becoming something else .Lord have mercy .

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  26. Ok is high time Cameroonians need to grow up, yes we all lost achalle and we're really sad bout that, but i feel like this woman is of, rapping some one at a tender age has nothing to do with dieing of Cancer at 30 fpr crying out loud. She she talk bout how the gov't can invest in our health feild so they can better treat all dreadfull diseases. I bet you if he was in America it would have been difft coz i wont understand how he has been battling with cancer for 3 years but they couldnt do nothing bout his health until at this last stage. Oh my Cameroon am so glad am outta thag country, And y is she sitting on the floor?? And she keeps saying parents should talk to thier children about what precisely��??? Chaaa plsssss CAMEROON SHOULD INPROVE ABEG

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